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How to Express Condolences to Your Friend?

How to Express Condolences to Your Friend?

When your friend is going through the pain of losing a loved one, it may be difficult to express anything. But condolence is necessary, a simple word, a gesture, a small gift can make her feel cared for and warm. If you have also experienced the same loss, you will understand your friend's feelings better. Every grieving person craves attention and support. If you're not sure how to express your condolences to a friend in the right way, you can read this article to find the right way.

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What is the proper time to send your condolences?


If you were very close, you should reach out to him and be there for him at the first sign of a loved one's death. You can help him with funeral arrangements, invitations, etc. If you are just ordinary friends, you can contact him sometime later and offer your condolences. Giving him a personalized urn necklace would be more heartwarming.


Don't force him to walk through grief in your way


Grief is a normal reaction to the death of a loved one, and each person is an individual. Reactions to the death of a loved one vary, as does the degree. Some people can dwell alone for a while and slowly come out of their grief. Some people need companionship and the comfort of loved ones & friends. The Swiss psychiatrist Kübler-Ross famously proposed in 1969 that the death of a loved one should be treated as an event. In 1969, the Swiss psychiatrist Kubler-Ross proposed the famous "five stages of grief" theory. The first stage is denial, a subconscious denial of the death of a loved one and an escape from the real world. The second stage is anger, feeling angry at the death of a loved one. The third stage is bargaining, constantly asking himself if he would have taken him to the doctor earlier, he would still be alive. The fourth stage is depression, feeling sad and lonely because of the death of a loved one.

The fifth stage is acceptance, accepting the death of a loved one. Some people can get over their grief in just a few weeks, while others can't get over it for years. Don't force your friend to grieve in your way; all you can do is be there for him and offer him help.


Offer support when they are in need


Don't say "I know what you are thinking", the person who has just lost a lover may have his own sadness. Just help them do what you can, such as helping them shop for some groceries, helping them receive some deliveries, helping them fill up their car with gas, etc. People who are in deep grief usually have a very disrupted routine, and doing things you can make them feel warmer. Especially on the day of the deceased's death, your friend will need your help even more. Every year on this day, you can express your condolences to your friend. Few people remember the deceased the year after they die, but if you remember the day of death the next year or three and offer your condolences to your friend, he or she will be very touched.


Call them or visit them in person


When your friend is going through the pain of a lover's death, all they need is a phone call from you. When they are drowning in memories and pain late at night, a phone call and a greeting can help them get through the difficult time. You can talk about happy things, plan a hike together, and go on a trip together. Or you can organize a memorial event for the deceased together and invite mutual friends to attend. You can also go to his home to keep him company, watch a movie together, talk, get drunk together, and help him through this difficult time.


Sending them a sympathy gift if necessary


Sending them a small memorial gift is a good way to comfort them. Memorial jewelry includes a necklace, bracelet, ring, and cremation urn. Cremation urn necklaces are favored by many people and can be used to hold a small portion of cremated ashes. Keepsake urns are mini cremation urns that can be held in a tablespoon of cremation ashes and used to distribute among family and friends. If the deceased was a mutual friend, you can also write some memories of your relationship.


Find proper words to say


Finding the right words to say can be a problem for most people when you have a friend who is suffering from loss. You want to find the right words to comfort them, but you don't want to overwhelm them with grief. We should try to avoid bringing up death to avoid bringing back bad memories. Maybe he just needs a shoulder to lean on, or to stay quietly together. We have collected some condolences quotes for those who need them. If you need to write a condolence card, you can refer to the following statements.

 

Condolences quotes


Immediate personal condolences
I'm so sorry for your loss. I'm going to miss her, too.
I wish you peace and comfort as you grieve.

Loss of a spouse

I know your love will always continue, even though you are parted

Loss of parent

No matter how old we are, it's never easy to lose a parent. My thoughts and prayers are with you as you grieve.

Loss of sibling

My deepest condolences on the loss of your sister/brother.
Your friends still have you in their thoughts and prayers. Please reach out if we can help.
Death ends a life, not a relationship.- Mitch Albom
I'm lighting a candle in your dear loved one's honor

These condolence quotes can be used to express sympathy for people who lost a lover. If your friend is going through a tough situation, help him and do what you can!
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